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		By: Greg Harrod		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Greg Harrod]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 04 May 2020 12:09:31 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://gregharrod.com/why-i-dont-want-to-ask-who-needs-to-do-what-by-when/#comment-22&quot;&gt;Kendi&lt;/a&gt;.

Great input, Kendi. I can relate to both of your points. And, I don&#039;t think they&#039;re trivial at all. Tracking action items efficiently and following through with them is difficult work. In fact, your comment reminded me that I&#039;m behind in that area right now! Put that on my list of things to do today.

On your second point, I often feel as you do, but I try to remind myself that the person asking the question (whether it&#039;s me or someone else) may or may not be the one who needs to follow up. If the group is functioning well as a team and the action tracker is visible to everyone, the owner of the action would ideally get their task done and not require much if any pressure or follow up. I have enough experience to know that&#039;s not typically the case, but we can help our teams move that direction.

What insights do others have on Kendi&#039;s experience? What tools or resources have you used to record and track action items with your teams?

Thanks for your comments, Kendi.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://gregharrod.com/why-i-dont-want-to-ask-who-needs-to-do-what-by-when/#comment-22">Kendi</a>.</p>
<p>Great input, Kendi. I can relate to both of your points. And, I don&#8217;t think they&#8217;re trivial at all. Tracking action items efficiently and following through with them is difficult work. In fact, your comment reminded me that I&#8217;m behind in that area right now! Put that on my list of things to do today.</p>
<p>On your second point, I often feel as you do, but I try to remind myself that the person asking the question (whether it&#8217;s me or someone else) may or may not be the one who needs to follow up. If the group is functioning well as a team and the action tracker is visible to everyone, the owner of the action would ideally get their task done and not require much if any pressure or follow up. I have enough experience to know that&#8217;s not typically the case, but we can help our teams move that direction.</p>
<p>What insights do others have on Kendi&#8217;s experience? What tools or resources have you used to record and track action items with your teams?</p>
<p>Thanks for your comments, Kendi.</p>
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		By: Kendi		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Kendi]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 04 May 2020 04:23:36 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[At the risk of sounding trivial, I am going to confess that there are two big reasons I don’t enjoy asking the question of who needs to do what by when.  First, I get extremely frustrated when there isn’t an efficient way of keeping track of action items (they get handed out, but never checked up on). I am not, by nature, organized, and I struggle to create a structure for this kind of thing when I’m leading a team. A very close second is that if I’m the one asking the question, then I need to be the one following up.  I don’t like people to feel that I’m pressuring them, because I highly value care, empathy, and kindness.  It creates a lot of inner tension for me, and I lose traction as a leader.  I’m working on it all, though, and enjoying all you have to say here.  Happy to be a 1st grader in a room of 5th graders!]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>At the risk of sounding trivial, I am going to confess that there are two big reasons I don’t enjoy asking the question of who needs to do what by when.  First, I get extremely frustrated when there isn’t an efficient way of keeping track of action items (they get handed out, but never checked up on). I am not, by nature, organized, and I struggle to create a structure for this kind of thing when I’m leading a team. A very close second is that if I’m the one asking the question, then I need to be the one following up.  I don’t like people to feel that I’m pressuring them, because I highly value care, empathy, and kindness.  It creates a lot of inner tension for me, and I lose traction as a leader.  I’m working on it all, though, and enjoying all you have to say here.  Happy to be a 1st grader in a room of 5th graders!</p>
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		By: Greg Harrod		</title>
		<link>https://gregharrod.com/why-i-dont-want-to-ask-who-needs-to-do-what-by-when/#comment-21</link>

		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Greg Harrod]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 29 Apr 2020 23:35:38 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://gregharrod.com/why-i-dont-want-to-ask-who-needs-to-do-what-by-when/#comment-20&quot;&gt;Steve&lt;/a&gt;.

Me too!]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://gregharrod.com/why-i-dont-want-to-ask-who-needs-to-do-what-by-when/#comment-20">Steve</a>.</p>
<p>Me too!</p>
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		By: Steve		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Steve]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 29 Apr 2020 12:11:56 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://gregharrod.com/why-i-dont-want-to-ask-who-needs-to-do-what-by-when/#comment-16&quot;&gt;Greg Harrod&lt;/a&gt;.

Scratch paper and pen, whiteboard, post-it notes - I&#039;ve done them all!]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://gregharrod.com/why-i-dont-want-to-ask-who-needs-to-do-what-by-when/#comment-16">Greg Harrod</a>.</p>
<p>Scratch paper and pen, whiteboard, post-it notes &#8211; I&#8217;ve done them all!</p>
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		By: Greg Harrod		</title>
		<link>https://gregharrod.com/why-i-dont-want-to-ask-who-needs-to-do-what-by-when/#comment-19</link>

		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Greg Harrod]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 29 Apr 2020 11:56:29 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://gregharrod.com/why-i-dont-want-to-ask-who-needs-to-do-what-by-when/#comment-18&quot;&gt;Steve&lt;/a&gt;.

Same for me, Steve. I find myself using visuals more and more to understand and explain things. As you said, our minds can often exaggerate things. Converting the clutter in my mind into a coherent visual is often hard for me but always beneficial.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://gregharrod.com/why-i-dont-want-to-ask-who-needs-to-do-what-by-when/#comment-18">Steve</a>.</p>
<p>Same for me, Steve. I find myself using visuals more and more to understand and explain things. As you said, our minds can often exaggerate things. Converting the clutter in my mind into a coherent visual is often hard for me but always beneficial.</p>
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		By: Steve		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Steve]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 29 Apr 2020 09:39:37 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://gregharrod.com/why-i-dont-want-to-ask-who-needs-to-do-what-by-when/#comment-16&quot;&gt;Greg Harrod&lt;/a&gt;.

I&#039;m a visual learner. For me, if I can see it, even if it is just a step or process list, it can framework just how tall the task may be. There have been times I&#039;ve surprised myself at how much simpler the reality is over the large obstacle my mind made it out to be!]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://gregharrod.com/why-i-dont-want-to-ask-who-needs-to-do-what-by-when/#comment-16">Greg Harrod</a>.</p>
<p>I&#8217;m a visual learner. For me, if I can see it, even if it is just a step or process list, it can framework just how tall the task may be. There have been times I&#8217;ve surprised myself at how much simpler the reality is over the large obstacle my mind made it out to be!</p>
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		By: Greg Harrod		</title>
		<link>https://gregharrod.com/why-i-dont-want-to-ask-who-needs-to-do-what-by-when/#comment-17</link>

		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Greg Harrod]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 29 Apr 2020 03:28:50 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://gregharrod.com/why-i-dont-want-to-ask-who-needs-to-do-what-by-when/#comment-15&quot;&gt;Marlon&lt;/a&gt;.

Glad it helped, my friend.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://gregharrod.com/why-i-dont-want-to-ask-who-needs-to-do-what-by-when/#comment-15">Marlon</a>.</p>
<p>Glad it helped, my friend.</p>
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		By: Greg Harrod		</title>
		<link>https://gregharrod.com/why-i-dont-want-to-ask-who-needs-to-do-what-by-when/#comment-16</link>

		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Greg Harrod]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 29 Apr 2020 03:27:10 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://gregharrod.com/why-i-dont-want-to-ask-who-needs-to-do-what-by-when/#comment-12&quot;&gt;Steve&lt;/a&gt;.

Great idea, Steve. I think the act of writing (and the thinking required to write) helps process feelings too. Sometimes just writing something down can make it less scary or uncomfortable.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://gregharrod.com/why-i-dont-want-to-ask-who-needs-to-do-what-by-when/#comment-12">Steve</a>.</p>
<p>Great idea, Steve. I think the act of writing (and the thinking required to write) helps process feelings too. Sometimes just writing something down can make it less scary or uncomfortable.</p>
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		By: Marlon		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Marlon]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 29 Apr 2020 02:57:42 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Greg...too close to home!  Your #1 honestly was my first thought, but you also called out a couple others that I have some personal experience with. I appreciate your insight drawing those up for reflection.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Greg&#8230;too close to home!  Your #1 honestly was my first thought, but you also called out a couple others that I have some personal experience with. I appreciate your insight drawing those up for reflection.</p>
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		By: Steve		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Steve]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 27 Apr 2020 02:20:04 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://gregharrod.com/why-i-dont-want-to-ask-who-needs-to-do-what-by-when/#comment-11&quot;&gt;Greg Harrod&lt;/a&gt;.

Sometimes I will write down all that is entailed in the action and deliverable, and I highlight the most &quot;uncomfortable&quot; aspects of the task. Consulting with a peer about those aspects can make them seem easier, or at least can direct me to a way to reduce the &quot;discomfort&quot; of them. Sometimes it works, and other times it stands to remain.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://gregharrod.com/why-i-dont-want-to-ask-who-needs-to-do-what-by-when/#comment-11">Greg Harrod</a>.</p>
<p>Sometimes I will write down all that is entailed in the action and deliverable, and I highlight the most &#8220;uncomfortable&#8221; aspects of the task. Consulting with a peer about those aspects can make them seem easier, or at least can direct me to a way to reduce the &#8220;discomfort&#8221; of them. Sometimes it works, and other times it stands to remain.</p>
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